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nowhere within the emotional feelings network of sites is any opportunity for me to make any profit from any of the 28 + sites within this network. this network of sites has been put together as a personal mission to help others by informing those who need information concerning mental health, eating disorders, lifestyle factors, and every other topic listed within

navigational hint: all underlined link words open up a new window instead of changing your present one, taking you to another site within the emotional feelings network of sites - or to another site referencing the underlined link word!

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 It's very important that you visit the page: keeping in touch!
 
Reason being: If you're here because you're searching for an answer to your feelings of dissatisfaction, unhappiness, feeling sick, or just general feelings of misery in your life - you need to find a volunteer opportunity that you feel comfortable with.
 
For a life changing listen - click here - it's truly life changing and something we all need to listen to. It does take some time to listen to Randy Pausch's Last Lecture, but you won't regret it. 
 
You can help yourself by helping others. You might not think so; but it's true. Find something you can do to help some worthy causes. "Keeping in Touch" will show you some important causes that need you!
 
Why not just click here now to get it over with! So even if you leave this site after finding some information concerning an emotion or feeling... you'll also leave with the seed of thought concerning volunteer work that might produce some results bringing you a sense of accomplishment & find yourself feeling better!

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Your dictionary definition of:
 

con·vic·tion   
n.
  1. Law
    1. The judgment of a jury or judge that a person is guilty of a crime as charged.
    2. The state of being found or proved guilty: evidence that led to the suspect's conviction.
    1. The act or process of convincing.
    2. The state of being convinced. See Synonyms at certainty.
  2. A fixed or strong belief. See Synonyms at opinion.

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5 years ago I was diagnosed with post traumatic stress disorder, depression & I was also experiencing an eating disorder that no one knew anything about; night eating.
 
While I was miserable in experiencing all the symptoms of post traumatic stress, an anxiety disorder & depression - which often accompanies anxiety disorders; I was overjoyed in finally finding out what was wrong with me!

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Why would someone spend 1000's of hours designing & keeping up these websites to offer free information to others?

I have to reply - "You're absolutely right! It does take many, many hours each day to work on these sites. I'm a mother, a wife & an individual who has tons of personal work to do as well as the usual family responsibilities!
 
How would I find the time?
 
Why do I do it? I use the opportunity to combine my own recovery - personal growth journey with an important concept that I've made a commitment to:
 
"Helping yourself thru helping others..." 
 
I was so excited when after years of searching for the answer to my everyday question, "What's wrong with me?" that I felt determined to show others that if you don't quit & you know the path to take, you can find your answers as well!

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My immediate concern was "mental health." While I didn't know what was wrong with me, I did have one medical specialist tell me that my physical pain was due to a "mental problem."

 
I didn't quite understand it all, I was wallowing in many different symptoms of mental illness like panic attacks, severe anxiety & finally my eating disorder symptoms of waking up numerous times in the night to eat.
 
Just as you may have seen recently on either public service television commercials for depression or in your doctor's office waiting room; mental illness can manifest itself in physical symptoms that include many sources of discomfort. I was also experiencing the symptoms of "irritable bowel syndrome," that had started early on in my life.
 
So I started with the mental health site that now exists within the network:
 
 
(be sure to read the following description)

it's time to put the frosting on the cake!

I've reached a point in my own personal recovery & growth journey that I believe I can describe accurately most of the emotions & feelings within the emotional feelings network of sites without using any information from anyone else.
 
But since the ruination of the "extremely emotional" site - I had to stop & ask myself - remembering to be aware & mindful of what's happening in my present moment -
 
"Why did this happen to me?" (the unreasonable ruin of my site, of course!) 
 
or - Choosing to seek a positive return for a negative energy passing my way - what would the positive ramifications be of having to go through every single page of a network of 28+ sites to delete the links to my ruined site?
 
Geez... now that I think of it... I've asked myself that question quite a few times before... "Why did this happen to me?" & I searched & searched for an answer, wasting time & positive energy on something very simple... Life is what's happening. Just look to find the positive about it instead of the negative
 
This is what I am looking for now in all aspects of my life. I'm looking for the "positive" reasons things happen. I remember what I've learned from my past to be prepared to have to confront negativities with my re-gained "power & control" on my side now instead of the enemy; but I choose now to look upon the face of countenance instead of upheaval.
 
After pondering a few days on this subject, while going through every page of the emotional feelings site - here - to unlink all the emotion & feelings words "s" thru the end of the alphabet - I realized something magnificent.
 
"This is my opportunity to take the time to check ALL linked words to be sure they're being directed to the correct places. This is my opportunity to re-check spelling & grammar. This is my opportunity to try to express in my own words - the most meaningful knowledge I've recently acquired!
 
I'll write what I've learned about the whole cake, almost 6 years of growth - not just reveal a the first piece of the cake! - I still offer other author's works to explain situational inferences to emotions & feelings!
 
I'll try to the best of my ability to explain the importance of every emotion & feeling. I'm honored you chose the emotional feelings network of sites to visit!
 
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is coming along.
 
it's the replacement site for extremely emotional!
 
thanks for your continued patience with me as it takes so long to re-establish all the underlined link words as well as building a new site!
 
kathleen

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welcome! to emotional feelings, too!
 
after looking things over here at emotional feelings, too, try out "the layer down under," (part of the emotional feelings network of sites) & read a special "i just gotta say it" column concerning porn addiction by clicking here! Be sure to scroll down towards the bottom of the right hand column to find it!
 
Visiting the homepage is a great idea as it offers the complete concept of the emotional feelings network of sites! You can also read this month's "I've just gotta say it!"

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 click here!  Bob Woodruff: Turning Personal Injury Into Public Inquiry click here!
 
I was personally very touched by this inspiring story as I watched it on television last night (2/27/07); especially after I experienced a life altering injury which took me 2 years to recover from.
 
What I want to ask you is...
If you can't help out with the helmets, below for our military men, can you volunteer or help our returning soldiers who are recovering with extreme traumatic brain injury?
 
Here are some links!
Check them out, I know that my family will be searching for a way we can help! Those experiencing traumatic injury may develop problems with their mental health.
 
 
 

What is Operation Helmet?

Founded in 2003 by Dr. Robert H. Meaders whose grandson is an active duty Marine in Iraq, Operation Helmet is a nonpartisan 501(c)(3) organization dedicated to providing safer helmet pad upgrade kits to the troops in Iraq & Afghanistan. To date, more than 6,000 kits have been shipped to the troops in the field.

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How this site works best for you!
 
You'll notice that there are many underlined link words in each article below. The reason for this is that you have reached not only, "emotional feelings, too," but the emotional feelings network of sites. There are many sites included within the network that'll be visited by clicking on these underlined link words.
 
The reason for this opportunity is very simple & yet you may be unnerved by all those underlined words! I've been in recovery from post traumatic stress disorder, depression & many other dysfunctional ventures & thru it all I've discovered that emotion & feeling work may be the missing link that many people miss when trying to find solutions to their problems.
 
Developing a sense of curiosity about why you feel the way you do, is essential in finding the solution you so desperately are searching for.
 
If you can't find what you came here looking for, visit the homepage for the emotional feelings network of sites by clicking above & read the options on the homepage for the networks index of sites. Try to be specific when looking for an emotion or feeling word & click on the site you need!
 
It's very simple & very interesting to follow your way thru the layers of your buried or stuffed emotions & feelings that have accumulated throughout the years!
 
when you've reached this point, or this website, you know you're making progress!!!! this part gets difficult because now is the time to look within & become emotionally honest with yourself!!!
 
Best of luck & if you're still stuck, send me an e-mail anytime, by clicking here & I'll be glad to send you an immediate personal response!
 
Sincerely,
Kathleen

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Guarding The City with Faith & Convictions
The Value of Convictions 

 

Unless the Lord … guards the city, the watchman keeps awake in vain… Ps 127:1

By David Crank

 

Tragedies
We’re surrounded by tragedies. In many Christian families we see youth rebel, get into drugs or alcohol or immorality, adopt humanistic philosophies & bring
shame upon the cause of Christ.

 

Still others just silently drift further & further from the Lord, choosing to live for themselves only & conforming themselves to the godless world around them.

 

And what of the Christian couples who drift further & further apart from each other until one becomes involved in adultery or one decides to leave & seek a better life elsewhere & the marriage ends in divorce. What a tragedy for these families & for the church as a whole !

As Christians we live in a foreign country that’s NOT our home. This world isn’t our friend. We’re surrounded by people who don’t
honor God, who don’t know the truth & who’re under the dominion of the evil one.

 

We’re the outsiders here, the ones who don't "fit in". Thus our families are always in danger from the ungodliness that is all around us. We're warned to not love the world nor the things of the world (1 Jn 2:15).

 

We’re exhorted to not be conformed to this world, but to be transformed (Rom 12:2). We’re told that the thief comes only to steal & kill & destroy (Jn 10:10).

 

Yet are we watchful?

 

Are we guarding our marriages & our families as we should?

 

And are we doing so in dependence & reliance on God & not on ourselves?

What can we do?

 

We can heed the Scriptures that warn us of these dangers. We can search the Word & pray for wisdom. We need wisdom to raise godly children & to protect our families from the dangers of the world.

 

We can follow the Biblical admonitions to teach our children God's Word when we sit in our house & when we walk by the way & when we lie down & when we rise up (Deut 6:7).

 

We can study God's Word & evaluate the world around us, developing convictions for how we should live to best please God & reduce the dangers to our families.
 
And we can come to God in faith, trusting & depending on Him to open our eyes to the serious dangers & to protect us where we inevitably fall short in our vigilance.
 
Without Him, we truly can do nothing.

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Convictions
What are
convictions?

 

Convictions are defined as “strong beliefs,” things you’ve become fully convinced of, having been persuaded by evidence or argument.

 

It’s on the basis of convictions that important decisions should be made about how you'll live.

 

Too often we make decisions based on our prejudices instead. Prejudices can also be very strong beliefs, but are the result of opinions we've adopted from others, our culture or our background.

 

Prejudices are preconceived judgments or opinions, opinions formed without just grounds or sufficient knowledge.

 

Convictions, unlike prejudices, should be founded upon facts & a thorough examination or investigation. 

Christian
convictions, based on the Word of God, are of varying types. We may become convinced concerning
a given interpretation, a specific application, a generalized principle & an application of a principle.

 

As we move from direct interpretation to application to principle to application of principle, there’s more danger of error, thus we should be more thoroughly convinced of some things than others. 

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Some Christians argue against holding convictions that go beyond direct commands of Scripture. It’s true that as we develop convictions in the areas of applications & principles, we’re more likely to disagree.

 

But does this mean we shouldn’t make applications & not generalize Biblical principles to help guide our decisions? Of course not! Isn't the Bible to be applied to our lives?

 

Doesn't God, thru the Bible, mean to teach us principles of wisdom?

 

Or would the critics merely desire us to never be convinced enough of anything to take decisive action?

 

No, I believe God does desire us to apply His Word to our lives & to learn principles of wisdom & to apply these to the many situations we face that aren’t precisely addressed by Biblical commands. And yes, I believe we should become thoroughly convinced, where the evidence warrants it & act decisively. 

Convictions acted upon, can be a means for guarding & protecting our families. Specifically I’m referring to convictions concerning separation from the world that impact our lifestyle. Some of these may arise from direct applications of Scriptural commands, others from applications of Biblical principles.

 

Many of the tragedies occurring within Christian families can be partly attributed to a lack of lived out convictions concerning separation  from the world. Now we can’t totally remove ourselves from this world, nor is this God's will for our lives.
 
We’re to serve Him in this world & all aren't called to serve Him in the same way. So neither should we expect that we’d all make identical decisions concerning separation from worldliness. But is it not foolishness to simply ignore the pressures of the world upon your family & make no serious effort to break woth the culture?

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Standing Alone - Even Among Christians

 

Peer pressure effects all of us to some degree. It comes in many forms. Co-workers, neighbors, school mates, friends, church members, TV, radio, movies, books, magazines, music, all exert influence upon us.

 

Some exert direct pressure & persecution, other influences are very subtle.

 

Some influences may be very good (the Bible, good Christian examples, etc.), but many are bad or at least mixed good & bad. The easy thing to do is to adopt the views & beliefs of our peers & live our lives as they do. This spares us persecution & makes us well accepted by men. 

God
desires us to follow Him, not our neighbors or friends. We’re responsible to God to pray & search the Scriptures for how we should live. To be able to follow where He leads, we must be able to stand alone & not just follow the crowd or yield to the pressures of others.
 
We need to develop convictions for ourselves that we’ll stand for, whether or not family, friends or fellow church members agree. Some of our convictions may need to address separateness from the world. We may need to reduce the contrary pressures & influences in order to live more godly lives. 

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Differences in Christian Convictions
 
It’s inevitable that we’ll have some differences in convictions. We will not perfectly agree on the exact interpretation of every verse in the Bible.
 
Different ones will see different applications for some commands & principles. None of us has perfect wisdom or understanding. Over time we hope to grow in knowledge, understanding & wisdom. So also we should expect to develop new convictions & to revise some we had before.

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