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click here! Bob Woodruff: Turning Personal Injury Into Public Inquiry click here!
I was personally very touched by this inspiring story as I watched it on
television last night (2/27/07); especially after I experienced a life altering injury which took me 2 years to recover from.
What I want to ask you is...
If you can't help out with the helmets, below for our military men, can
you volunteer or help our returning soldiers who are recovering with extreme traumatic brain injury?
Here are some links!
Check them out, I know that my family will be searching for a way we can help!
Those experiencing traumatic injury may develop problems with their mental health.
What is Operation Helmet?
Founded in 2003 by Dr. Robert H. Meaders whose grandson is an active duty Marine in Iraq, Operation Helmet is a nonpartisan 501(c)(3) organization dedicated
to providing safer helmet pad upgrade kits to the troops in Iraq & Afghanistan.
To date, more than 6,000 kits have been shipped to the troops in the field.
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It's very simple & very
interesting to follow your way thru the layers of your buried or stuffed emotions & feelings that have accumulated throughout the years!
when you've reached this point, or this website, you know you're making
progress!!!! this part gets difficult because now is the time to look within & become emotionally honest with yourself!!!
Best of luck & if you're
still stuck, send me an e-mail anytime, by clicking here & I'll be glad to send you an immediate personal response!
Sincerely,
Kathleen


if you clicked on the animation immediately left & you read the article....
challenges brought forth by Hurricanes Katrina
& Rita


September 11, 2005
A Small Hospital Takes on a Big Job
Tim Bush, RN, is Administrative
Supervisor, St. Elizabeth Hospital, Gonzales, Louisiana.
I can't begin to document
the events of the days after hurricane Katrina made land fall in southeast Louisiana. I was reminded of recent medical mission
trips to impoverished countries abroad, mainly because of the enormous need & the same unselfish acts I witnessed by those working beside me.
St. Elizabeth Hospital is
a small hospital just west of New Orleans, with an average inpatient census of 35. On Tuesday morning after the hurricane
we were the closest fully functional hospital outside the city. We began receiving patients almost immediately. An ER that
usually sees about 1600 patients a month saw over a 1000 in a few days! Our inpatient census more than doubled
Several adjustments
were made in an effort to accommodate the influx. Triage stations were set up in our auditorium & PACU & clinical
& nonclinical team members were used where ever there was a need.
Storage areas
were converted into patient rooms & beds were borrowed from other less acute facilities. Available supplies quickly ran
low, but we began receiving shipments from outside facilities & vendors within a couple of days. We had enough supplies
to help supply law enforcement, military units & other portable medical units that set up in the area.
We had very little to no notification
when patients were coming. They came by ground & air & they kept on coming. Sometimes there were 1 to 2 patients &
sometimes there were 8 to 10 at a time. At first people came directly from the city & then from shelters & surrounding
areas that were evacuating.
Patients presented with an
assortment of ailments. These included a 60-year-old who broke both ankles while trying to get in a rescue craft, a bus full
of evacuated nursing home patients who hadn't received care in several days (the driver stopped because one had died on the way), a patient on the
back of a military truck who had been there for several days because she was too large to move by conventional means, people
with numerous infections from unsanitary conditions, & the list goes on & on.
We even cared for 40 swat team members involved in a chemical explosion who needed decontaminating.
We put our decontamination tent
up & had them all wet & naked in less than an hour. We were seeing every type of injury & illness you can imagine.
Our leadership team was phenomenal.
They held several planning meetings per day in an effort to anticipate needs & solve existing challenges. In the days since the storm I haven't heard one of our
team members complain. Many have been displaced themselves, but all of them pulled together & did whatever needed to care for those that continue to come. The effort has been enormous.
There have been challenges, as one could imagine. Transportation was a big issue. We would treat & then try to send the
less acute patients to the smaller outlying facilities to make room, but ran into trouble trying to get them transportation.
Some patients would be treated
& discharged but refused to go to a shelter. Several shelters sprang up. Some were set up in local churches, schools,
large public buildings & individual homes. There remain several thousand refugees in our area.
Aid is being sent from several
places, but the enormity of this is unbelievable. These people, several thousand of them, have nowhere to go. They are toe-to-toe in the shelters under difficult conditions
& their medical needs are only going to grow. In the northern parishes there are thousands who still can't leave from their homes.
Many & I mean many, have
lost every worldly possession they have. The fortunate have family to stay with or have found residence in the surrounding areas. The populations of some local cities have grown
by 40 to 50% overnight.
We have been witness
to the best & the worst of human kind during these past days. Healthcare workers, fireman, law enforcement of every kind,
the military, volunteers & many others have given much in an effort to help. There's much to be done.
This tragedy will
affect us for years to come. I thank God for His mercy & pray for the strength to continue helping these people in the
days to come. I'd ask that you do the same.

about challenge


Challenge
I was thinking about my life the other day, which I often do & about my observations of others.
I realized that I don't have any challenges
in my life, compared to a lot of other people. By that I mean, my life is going along smoothly & the things I want
pretty much come to me.
I was thinking "that's a good thing, not to have to work so hard for what I want."
But then another thought popped into my head :"Yeah but your life is boring. You don't have any challenges, that feeling of intense satisfaction you get when you have to give all you have to overcome a huge obstacle. There
isn't anything better than that."
I started to think about overcoming obstacles & the satisfaction associated with it.
Then I realized, a challenge is just
resistance to what you want. An obstacle is something you put there, in order to
have a challenge. If you weren't resisting what you wanted, it wouldn't feel like an obstacle
& there would be no challenge!
I started to think about that great feeling you get when you overcome the obstacle & demonstrate success. That feeling is just the lowering of the resistance you put up in the first place! I then realized,
again, that you're your own worst enemy & your best friend.
I realized for the umpty-umph time that I create everything in my life.

Here's an example:
Say you wanted to start a new business. You've never been
self-employed before, so it seems daunting at first. There are 2 ways you can approach it: you can envision your new enterprise
as something that will require a tremendous amount of work or something that will naturally fly right.
If you approach the venture with the attitude of hard work, you're already resisting all of the people, money & things which would come to you, thru the universal
property of 'like attracts like.'
The more you work on your business with this attitude, the harder it gets. Now you're facing challenges every
day, probably experiencing anxiety, worry & some upset along the way. But you persevere & eventually
get it done. Now you're happy.
Or, you could approach the new business with a detailed vision, a vision in which you're expending
very little effort & the resources you need come to you easily. The more you work on your business with this attitude, the more the universe matches you up with the people, money & things which you need in order to be successful.

The powerful universal property of 'like attracts like' immediately goes to work for you, just as it did in the previous example. But now,
there's very little worry, anxiety & upset. Things just fall into place for you w/relative ease.
The business starts slowly but becomes very successful. In both cases, a business was created.
But in the first case, there were a large number of obstacles to overcome. You gutted it out,
successfully overcame all of the challenges. Now, you talk to your buddies
& they all say "great work! You really stepped up & battled hard. Now, you can enjoy your
reward." You feel good about yourself.
In the second case there were almost no challenges. Obstacles,
yes, but these didn't appear to you as something to worry about. You felt
good almost all the time & when you're done, you feel even better.

Now I ask you 2 questions:
Which scenario would you
rather experience? And secondly, Which business do you think will be easier to run & be ultimately more successful?
If you're like me, I'll take the 2nd experience. I'll leave the worrying,
the anxieties & the upset to the other guys. It would seem to
me that the guy who was in a good feeling place the whole time will have a more successful business, because you can't get to a happy place by treading a path feeling rotten most of the time.
The law of 'like attracts like' will bring you more of the same, so you will likely experience
a lot of difficulties operating your business, if you're a 'overcome challenges' kind of
person
Lets
analyze what happened.
The 2nd guy didn't have a lot of resistance to his goal. He did his homework & got together a really good business plan, one he was really excited & confident about. The he just went about executing that plan without a lot of worry
about it.

Mostly he just had fun along the way.
The first guy also had
a great business plan, but he worried a lot that maybe the economy would
go into a recession. He wondered whether he'd be able to get good employees. He had
doubts about his own ability to get it done. But he went ahead into action anyway, figuring he
would 'accept the challenge.'
And that's exactly the experience he got!
The second guy had his
energies almost completely aligned to his goal before he started. The first guy went into action before he had felt comfortable about his new goal.
All challenge is self-imposed. Obstacles
& challenges come about from not completely aligning your energy to what
you want before you start!

Of course, this example would be a little different if the goal were strictly a physical activity. Say you were a rock climber & you decided to go free-climbing that 500 foot mesa.
Now you definitely are going to experience a little anxiety!!!
But the principle is the same.
If you approach your task with the idea that it'll be almost impossible & that you might get
killed, I guarantee you will have a series of near-death experiences on the way up!
But if you're really clear
on your vision of the climb, you'll probably take extra practice, working on your holds & your technique.
You won't attempt the climb until you feel excited about it, for when you have that excited feeling, that's the sign you're letting the life force energy flow freely thru you in regard to it. A feeling of anxiety is a blocking of that life force energy.
The better you feel about the climb, the easier it'll be, again
by the property of 'like attracts like.'
If you feel good about the climb, you'll naturally gravitate to those areas where the holds are optimum, where the
rock is solid & where there are a minimum of difficult passages.

If you're anxious
about the climb, you'll be attracted to those areas where the holds are difficult, the rock is loose & you'll experience
some difficult passages.
The first guy gets off the mesa & practically collapses. The second guy gets off the rock
& is still excited. He is really tired, had some difficulties, but feels exhilarated at his experience.
The first guy goes to his buddies, after a week of recovery & starts bragging to them all
what a monster he is. He tells them all about the time he almost fell off & all the rest. They look at him in awe.
The 2nd guy goes to his friends & he tells them how
much fun he had. He tells them about his anxious moments, but he describes how good the
rock is, how the climb can be successfully negotiated. He shows them the route he took.
The 1st guy's buddies are scared to death to attempt the climb. They look at him like a minor deity.
The 2nd guy's buddies are all excited to try it for themselves. The energy of the whole group is really high & they all decide to climb it together with
the 2nd guy leading the way.
The 1st guy overcame big-time challenges.
The 2nd guy did as well, but his climb was marked by an excitement that comes from a lack of resistance to the goal.
Challenge is mostly self-imposed, regardless of the activity. Anything that can be done with resistance, can be
done easier with a lack of resistance. And with a lot more fun as well!

have you been challenged emotionally?
Coping with the Emotional Challenges of Miscarriage By Norman Brier
Miscarriage:defined as
an unintended ending of a pregnancy before the 20th week of gestation; is a relatively frequent event that often produces
a strong sense of bewilderment & marked feelings of distress.
A woman who miscarries experiences
several losses:
the feeling of bodily adequacy related to the ability to bringing a pregnancy to term
& especially, the times that were to be spent with the
expected child
Most people have a great deal
of difficulty coping with a miscarriage. The experience is often sudden & unexpected, so that there's little
time to prepare.
Often it's also
highly ambiguous; unlike the loss of a friend, parent, or partner, there's no person to bury or actual memories of
shared time to treasure & grieve.
Instead, only an imagined
future can be mourned & usually without any clear rituals to help the person structure & express her grief.
The frequent lack of adequate emotional support is likely to add to a woman's distress as well. Many of the people who might have been supportive during prior times of stress may be unaware of the pregnancy & miscarriage.
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