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I was personally very touched by this inspiring story as I watched it on
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Those experiencing traumatic injury may develop problems with their mental health.
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It's very simple & very
interesting to follow your way thru the layers of your buried or stuffed emotions & feelings that have accumulated throughout the years!
when you've reached this point, or this website, you know you're making
progress!!!! this part gets difficult because now is the time to look within & become emotionally honest with yourself!!!
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Sincerely,
Kathleen



Complacency is the Enemy By Jeff Keller
February 22, 1980. Lake Placid, New York - the host city for the 1980 Winter Olympics.
The Soviet Union's Olympic hockey team was set to play the US Olympic team in an important game that would probably decide the gold medal. Yet, calling this a "game" was a stretch.
The
powerful, professional Soviet hockey team had won 4 consecutive gold medals & was undefeated in the Olympic
games since 1968.
The U.S. Olympic hockey team was a collection of untested college players. The 1980 Soviet team
was head & shoulders above all of the other Olympic teams.
How good were the Soviets?
They had defeated professional teams from the National Hockey League. In fact, months
before the 1980 Olympics, the US collegians played the Soviet team in an exhibition game.
The Soviets embarrassed the U.S. squad by a score of 10-3. The players on the US team admitted that they were awestruck by the ability of the Soviets.
The US team regrouped & headed for the Olympic games in Lake Placid. In the opening game,
they tied a strong Sweden team by scoring a goal with 27 seconds to play.
The US team won its next 4 games, earning a spot in the medal round & the privilege of
playing the Soviet team, who had easily beaten all of its Olympic opponents to that point.
Nobody
thought this game could possibly be close. Near the end of the first period, the Soviets led 2-1. With just a few seconds
left in the period, a US player took a desperation shot from center ice.
The great Soviet goalie, Vladislav Tretiak, made the save easily & expected the horn to sound, ending the period.
The Soviet defensemen also eased up, sensing
the end of the period. But Mark Johnson of the US team hustled past the Soviet defensemen, got the rebound & put the puck
in the net with 1 second to play to tie the score at 2-2.
Going into the final period,
the Soviets led, 3-2. But, in what's widely acknowledged as the biggest upset in sports history, the US Team scored 2 goals in the final period to win the game, 4-3.
How on earth did the Soviets lose to a bunch of college students? Simply put, the Soviets got
complacent. They were overconfident & thought there was no way the US Team could possibly defeat them.
At the end of the first period, the Soviet goalie didn't think the US had time to score before the end of the period.
And, throughout the game,
the Soviets believed that they couldn't possibly lose to a team whose talent was so clearly inferior to their own. The Soviets thought they could easily coast to victory. They were wrong.
Just
about everyone in that arena in Lake Placid on Feb. 22, 1980 knew that if these 2 opponents played 9 additional games
against each other, there's an excellent chance that the Soviets would have won all 9.
But the Soviets had only 1 chance
to win the gold medal in 1980 & on the day when it counted, they took the competition for granted & they lost.
If you've ever played sports, you've probably witnessed this phenomenon first-hand. You played
an opponent or team that was inferior. Yet, you took the opponent for granted & ended up losing. You or your team got complacent & the other team gained confidence as the game went on. They started to believe they could beat
you... & they did.

Of course, this principle isn't confined to sports. While I was a practicing attorney, I was fortunate to represent a very astute, highly successful businessman named Jack. He taught me a great deal
about success & one of his comments, in particular, stands out. Here's what Jack said:
"My greatest security is my insecurity."
Now, when Jack referred to "insecurity," he wasn't talking about lacking confidence or self-esteem. He was addressing the issue of complacency.
You see, Jack was always able to stay on top, because he never rested on his laurels. He knew that if he let
up, something or someone could bring his businesses down. He recognized that yesterday's triumphs don't guarantee tomorrow's successes.
We've
all faced this issue in our careers & we've witnessed others who get complacent. I'll bet that somewhere along the line, you had a teacher who had been teaching for many years & was just "going
thru the motions." Or, perhaps you were served by a waiter in a restaurant who was just doing the minimum to get by.
Salespeople often get complacent in booming economic times, only to suffer extreme disappointment when there's an economic downturn. Even in the field of professional speaking, it's tempting at times to get too comfortable.
I realized early on, however, that I must prepare for several hours before each presentation, whether I've given
that presentation once or 50 times. Otherwise, I will not be at my best.
Take some time
to think about your business or your career. Are there any areas where you've become a little complacent... where you've let
the quality of your work slip?
Complacency isn't just about trying new things. It's about performing at the highest
level you're capable of & maintaining that level every day.
When things are going well, we tend to
ease up. And, it's in those moments that we give less than our best effort, squandering opportunities. So, the next time you're
a little overconfident & complacent about your
work or your competition, think of the Soviet hockey team in 1980. Don't ever let that happen to you!
Jeff Keller (c) Attitude is Everything, Inc.


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Complacency Contented or self-satisfied to a fault. From the Latin complacens,
to be very pleasing. With respect to character, one who is complacent
is fully satisfied with who they are. Inherent in complacency is
the notion that such satisfaction is rarely warranted.
The greatest fault is to be conscious of none.
Thomas Carlyle
Like apathy, which carries the same negative weight, complacency is linked to detachment & therefore inherently connotes a lack of joy.
Satisfaction with one's circumstance to the extent that it results in compalcency is the result of sensing no stake in or value to be derived from participation in one's surroundings.
Hence ambition,
curiosity, caring, desire & several other positive elements all help combat compalcency.
The presence of both common sense & wisdom, furthermore, can effectively make
complacency retreat. As with apathy & detachment, those suffering from complacency should actively explore the reasons with family,
friends or professional counselors.
We should comfort the afflicted, but we also need to afflict the comfortable.
John Kenneth Galbraith
No Place For Complacency: A Call to Arms
I am calling all of my sisters and brothers
to arms.
A little surprised to hear
that coming from me, Ms. Peace & Love? Well don't be.
The arms I'm talking about
are the ones hanging loosely at your side. The ones holding that chubby baby that you'd do anything for. The arms that hug
your mom, your dad, your kids, your man, your immediate family.
I'm asking, pleading with
every one of you to open your circle a little wider; actually, a lot wider. The negative forces on this planet are ferociously fighting back, quite frankly because they know that their time has come to go back
into the shadows. Don't let the present crazy war energies, the hate, the racism, greed, the ka ka... suck you into complacency.
Our planet is being bombarded
with love. More so now, than ever before in the life of this planet. It's time for us to catch up with the higher love of the universe. Believe me, we aren't alone. All the masters, the angels, the higher evolved souls & beings are focusing on us because it is
time to grow up & evolve out of our fear based state.
Generally speaking, we humans
are like children; the naughty, spoiled little kids of the universe. This is graduation time folks. You can either jump on
the peace train or be lost in the cosmic toilet of the universe.
Open your heart to love your brothers & sisters. Open your arms to one another. Don't let the negative stuff dampen your love. Tune into the love, let it in your heart, make your arms work for peace & love.
Don't get sucked into
angry confrontations with those that are fighting the love & stuck in their fear.
Just love em! I'm serious. Next time someone is slinging mud at you or you're watching the
crud unfold on the news, send those people love. Send them unconditional, warm, inspiring, true, undying love. Let go of your anger & judgments & just love.
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